006: Our Longing for the Eternal

Perhaps you follow me on social media or on my blog and know that I occasionally ask for prayer requests whenever I go on a pilgrimage. I’ve been fortunate enough to go on multiple pilgrimages over the past several years, and I have one person to thank for introducing me to the notion of pilgrimaging.

My guest in this podcast is Jason. He led both World Youth Day pilgrimages and several of the March for Life pilgrimages that I have been a part of. We talk about what pilgrimages are, and we share various experiences from those pilgrimages to further talk about the sorts of lessons we can learn from them.

Highlights:

  • Catch up, no coffee, and I’m not two best friend white guys who do Catholic podcasting
  • What is a pilgrimage?
  • Beware of what pilgrimage company you use
  • God desires us to be saints
  • What is the March for Life pilgrimage?
  • Crazy story from a priest ordination pilgrimage in NYC
  • Crazy story from visiting famous staircase in New Mexico
  • What was the World Youth Day 2016 pilgrimage? and highlights?
  • Bishop stayed and a papal drive by happened
  • Holy doors
  • My recent Nagasaki pilgrimage
  • What can we learn from pilgrimages?

Jason and his wife, Becky, run the Three to Get Married podcast, which I also mentioned in Episode 001! Check ’em out!

Jason also chats it up with other youth ministers in the Catholic Youth Ministry podcast. Also check it out!

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Thanks for listening!

-JD

Flat Tire

During my stay in Japan a few months ago, I decided to book a weekend trip to Manila, Philippines to visit members of my mom’s side of the family. That was really cool to be able to visit cousins and extended family that I haven’t seen in a very long while. 10 years ago, I think, was the last time I was in the Philippines.

Part of my Philippine weekend adventures was going to the National Shrine of St. Padre Pio in Batangas. My first cousin, once removed, was driving. Unfortunately, we somehow suffered a flat tire on the way perhaps while driving through the crowded dirt roads to the shrine.

My cousin worked on that while my other cousins and I went to Mass.

After Mass, we toured around the shrine before re-airing the flat tire and heading out to find a repair shop. Or I guess in the Philippines, it’s more common to see a vulcanizing shop than a typical auto repair shop. Vulcanization is the process of converting rubber and polymers into something stronger using additives and heating it all together.

But! It was a struggle to find a vulcanizing shop despite our Google Maps powers. We had to ask the locals, but they kindly directed us towards a main road via some very muddy roads, and I feared for about 10 minutes whether we’d get stuck in the mud or something. Fortunately, that was not the case.

We finally found a vulcanizing shop on a main road, but we had to wait about 30 minutes or so for the shop owner to finish his current repair for another customer. It wasn’t too impressive looking of a place as it almost literally was a little shack or hut with a small workshop on the side of the road.

When it was our turn, I observed him repairing the tire.

And. I. Was. Impressed.

First of all, and I wish I had taken pictures, the shop owner had basically created and fashioned all the tools he needed to be able to remove the tire from the wheel. I’m talking like…welded pieces of metal and metal/wood apparatuses! He had also cut in a half a larger tire filled with water. Here, he dipped our flat tire to discover where the hole was based on bubbles. When he sealed it up, he used his own iron and clamp to heat up the sealant to vulcanize to the tire.

The whole process took about 30-35 minutes. I was hot and bugs were landing on me as I stood around.

The crazy thing is… he did all this work in tsinelas! (flip flops) even as he was stomping on the tire and dealing with heavy and hot objects.

With my middle-class American mindset, I half expect all auto repairs to be done in clean, well-lit places, and done by uniformed and safely dressed mechanics. But! Nope! Not the case. And that’s totally cool.

I was also surprised that for the amount of work that he did, it only costed something less than $5 USD. LOL WUT. A kind of repair job like that back home in the United States is easily at least $20!

Anyway…I learned and realized an two important things in this entire process of watching this man repair our flat tire. And I think he is a good example of what I realized.

Filipinos don’t have a whole lot. Most of the country lies somewhere in the third world. Granted, some parts of Manila look very western and well-developed, but you needn’t stray too far to observe how first world luxuries are sorely lacking. Our tire repair man didn’t have the best space or the tools to be most efficient at his craft.

Filipinos are very resourceful. Yet, despite not having a whole lot, Filipinos get by with what they have. And they are cleverly resourceful with what little they have. I just mentioned how the tire repair man fashioned his own tools. His particular example is inspiring for me because it shows me that one can still be successful without having much.

I think these things will be important to keep in mind the next time I face challenges in my own life. I can make the best of any challenging situation.

Thinking about all this, it’s humbling for me because I take all that I have for granted. I’m grateful to have had this unfortunate happenstance of suffering a flat tire during my weekend trip to the Philippines because the time it took to repair it gave me ample time to reflect on these things.

Pinoy and proud.

-JD

005: Small Talk with a Hairstylist

Episode 5?! Wow!

Allie and I have known each other for a while now so it’s not surprising that inside jokes and references abound. During these past several years of youth ministry, I’ve seen her change her line of work several times. She went to hair school to be a registered cosmologist. I’ve actually had my hair cut by her multiple times, but what’s great about having good friends cut your hair is that it eliminates that super awkward small talk between yourself and the hairstylist.

So that’s why I ask Allie about that and how she can move beyond small talk.

Hope you enjoy!

ALSO!!! I AM NOW ON ITUNES!!! Please subscribe and rate my podcast!

-JR

004: Part 2 – Trophy Husbanding with Chocolate Milk and Bacon with Riggs

Continuing on with my conversation with Riggs, this is the episode where we talk about what it's like for him to be a stay-at-home dad with his daughter who has cystic fibrosis. We talk about what he does to level up his dad skills as well as how this experience of being a stay-at-home dad has spiritual implications.

Again, thank you for listening, and please help me share this episode! If you know a fellow stay-at-home dad or maybe even a new dad, or perhaps a family with a child who has cystic fibrosis, please share this episode with them!

You can follow Riggs on Instagram here: @timbroderickjr

-JR

003: Part 1 – Origin Story and the Underwhelming Ow with Riggs

This is Part 1 of a chitchat with my buddy Riggs. He moved away last year, and it's been awhile since I've talked with him. In this episode, we talk about what it's like living in Colorado, seeking spiritual direction, why he moved to Colorado, and how we know each other from youth ministry. And that turns into story time about woodworking and brewing beers.

Thanks for listening, and I hope you like this episode! Part 2 will be released very soon as we continue the discussion about what it's like to be a stay-at-home dad.

-JD

Shout out again to my bro, Brad, for the music!